When people say SHIDUCHIM IS AS HARD AS SPLITTING THE SEA…
I always feel that it’s a discouraging line…
Nothing is hard for HaShem! HE CAN and WILL do anything and everything for HIS CREATIONS…
What may be as hard as splitting the sea in regards to shiduchim….
Is the Jews ability to have 100% EMUNAH
AND TAKE THE FIRST LEAP INTO THE WATER!
(Like Nachshon Ben Aminadav did
during the splitting of the sea ;)
Also
The ability to have patience in waiting for HaShem Geula
And then once HASHEM saved us and we safely crossed the sea… aka … finding and marrying your zivug
We still had a hard time showing true appreciation, gratitude, and trust in HASHEM
Sometimes this is true for couples after getting married and throughout the journey of life with their partner…
I want to Reiterate…
NOTHING IS HARD FOR HASHEM… things in this process may be hard for US…
But we should never take the power away from HASHEM
HASHEM is allknowing, allwilling, and awesome is a consciousness that we may not even be able to understand…
But that is the real challenge of SHIDUCHIM
ITS NOT weather or not you’re having an “easy” time finding your zivug or staying married to your partner…
BUT RATHER … it’s the EMUNAH and BITACHON that we are challenged to practice… that is the true “struggle”
HaShem can and will do it all… if you just believe and trust that he has the ability to.